《asp+flash》 

<html>
<head>
<meta http-equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=gb2312">
<title>网页特效---另类弹出式窗口</title>
</head>
<body>
 

<script>
var theURL = "http://7stk.com";;
var title = "test"
var windowWidth  = 478;
var windowHeight = 100;
var windowX = 100;
var windowY = 100;
var autocenter = false;
var autoclose = true;
var s="width="+windowWidth+",height="+windowHeight;
var beIE=document.all?true:false;
var done=new Object("no");

if(autocenter){
windowX = (window.screen.width-windowWidth)/2;
windowY = (window.screen.height-windowHeight)/2;
}

function doAgilePopup(){
  if (beIE){
  agilePopper = window.open("","popAgile","fullscreen,"+s);
  agilePopper.blur();
  window.focus();
  agilePopper.resizeTo(windowWidth,windowHeight);
  agilePopper.moveTo(windowX,windowY);
  var frameString=""+
"<html>"+
"<head>"+
"<title>"+title+"</title>"+
"</head>"+
"<frameset rows='*,0' framespacing=0 border=0 frameborder=0>"+
"<frame name='top' src='"+theURL+"' scrolling=no>"+
"<frame name='bottom' src='about:blank' scrolling='no'>"+
"</frameset>"+
"</html>"
  agilePopper.document.open();
  agilePopper.document.write(frameString);
  agilePopper.document.close();
  }else{
  agilePopper=window.open(theURL,"popAgile","scrollbars=no,"+s);
  agilePopper.blur();
  window.focus();
  agilePopper.resizeTo(windowWidth,windowHeight);
  agilePopper.moveTo(windowX,windowY);
  }
  agilePopper.blur();
  if (autoclose){
  window.onunload = function(){agilePopper.close();}
  }
  done="okay";
}

</script>
<body onLoad="doAgilePopup()">


</body>

</html>

asp文件代码
id=request("id")
set conn=server.createobjecy("adodb.connection")
conn.open "driver={microsoft access driver (*.mdb)};dbq="&server.mappath("数据库.mdb")
sql="select * from 表名 where id="&id
set rs=server.createobject("adodb.recordset")
rs.open sql,conn,1,1
if rs.eof then
feedback="none"
else
feedback=rs("id")
end if

flash代码
第一帧建一个text，名字为id
一个按钮，在按钮上添加代码，如按钮名称为btn
on(onrealese){
getURL("xxx.asp?id="+id.text,,"post")
gotoAndPlay(3)
}
再低二帧写代码
if (feedback!="none"){
gotoAndPlay(4)
}else{
gotoAndPlay(3)
}
第三帧代码
gotoAndPlay(2)
第四帧代码(建一个文本框txt)
txt.text=feedback